One of the most common things I hear from people in this space (people who have walked away from or are walking away from the faith traditions they grew up in) is that the Bible feels like a minefield now. They either avoid it completely because it’s too loaded, or they pick it up and immediately feel the old anxiety creeping back in. Or the guilt. Or the pressure to have the right interpretation. Or the fear that asking the wrong question means something is wrong with them.

I’ve been there. And I think a lot of you have too.

So I made something!

The How to Read the Bible Without Losing Your Mind Guide is exactly what it sounds like. It’s a short, practical, accessible guide to approaching Scripture in a way that is intellectually honest, spiritually alive, and a lot less anxious than what most of us were taught. It’s a starting point for people who want to re-engage with Scripture without all the baggage that used to come with it.

It covers things like why knowing the genre of a biblical text changes everything, how to let Jesus function as the interpretive lens for the whole library, how to give yourself permission to read slowly and selectively without feeling like you’re failing, and what to actually do when you hit something in the text that disturbs or confuses you.

I wrote this for people who are reconstructing—who haven’t thrown the whole thing out, but who need a different set of tools than the ones they were handed. If that’s you, I think this will be genuinely useful.

The guide is linked below. I hope it’s helpful. And as always, I’d love to hear what you think. I am really proud of it.

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I spent nearly a decade preaching the Bible and somewhere in there I was also, without fully realizing it, preaching a set of assumptions about the Bible that I had never actually examined. They came with the tradition. They were baked into my education. Nobody handed them to me as a package and said here is what you will believe about Scripture. They just accumulated over years of Sunday school and classes and sermons and small group discussions until they felt less like assumptions and more like the air I breathed.

Unlearning them has been one of the more disorienting and ultimately freeing experiences of my theological life. And it wasn’t because I love the Bible less than I used to. It was because I finally started taking it seriously on its own terms instead of the terms I was handed.

These are the five that did the most damage and took the longest to see clearly:

1. The Bible Wasn’t Written to You

This is the one that changes everything else once it lands. The Bible was written for you (Christians have always believed that) but it was not written to you. Every single book of the Bible had an original audience, a specific historical moment, a set of cultural assumptions, and a particular set of questions it was trying to answer. When Paul wrote his letter to the church in Rome, he was writing to actual people in first-century Rome who were navigating real tensions between Jewish and Gentile Christians in the shadow of the emperor. When John wrote Revelation, he was writing to seven specific churches in Asia Minor who were living under Roman imperial pressure and needed a message encoded in apocalyptic imagery they would have recognized immediately.

N.T. Wright has spent his entire career making this case. That you cannot understand what a text means for us today without first understanding what it meant for them then. Pulling a verse out of its historical context and applying it directly to your life or your politics is not taking the Bible seriously. It’s actually doing the opposite. You’re flattening a living document into a fortune cookie.

2. Inerrancy Is Not an Ancient Doctrine

Most people who grew up in evangelical churches carry the impression that the church has always believed in biblical inerrancy the way their tradition defines it (that it’s ancient, settled, and essentially synonymous with taking the Bible seriously at all). The history tells a more complicated story. The formal doctrine of inerrancy as most American evangelicals hold it was codified at a conference held at a hotel in Chicago in October of 1978. That document, called the Chicago Statement on Biblical Inerrancy, was signed by around 300 evangelical scholars and leaders and was explicitly designed to push back against what they saw as liberalizing trends in evangelical scholarship.

That’s a document younger than the original Star Wars. And even among the scholars who signed it, there has been fierce and ongoing debate about what it actually means. Evangelical New Testament scholar Michael Licona lost his job at Southern Evangelical Seminary after suggesting that a passage in Matthew 27 might be apocalyptic in genre rather than literal history, and he believed in inerrancy.

What gets handed to people in the pew is a cleaned-up version that makes the doctrine sound simpler and more ancient than it actually is.

3. The Bible Is a Library, Not a Book

When you pick up the Bible, you are holding somewhere between 66 and 73 books depending on your tradition, written by dozens of authors across roughly a thousand years, in three different languages, spanning multiple literary genres that require completely different reading strategies. There is poetry in there. There is apocalyptic literature. There is law, wisdom writing, gospel narrative, personal correspondence, prophetic speech, and ancient genealogy. These are not the same kind of writing, and they do not work the same way.

You would walk away very confused about what instructions you were supposed to follow. The Psalms are not instructions. Job is not a theology textbook. Revelation is not a newspaper about the future. When you read poetry as history, or apocalyptic literature as journalism, or ancient Near Eastern cosmology as science, you are not taking the Bible more seriously. You are actually misreading it. The authors knew exactly what genre they were working in. Paying attention to that is one of the most basic forms of respect you can show the text.

4. You Are Always Interpreting

“I just read what the Bible says” is the most common thing I heard in evangelical spaces, and it sounds humble but it carries a hidden assumption that doesn’t hold up. Nobody reads the Bible without interpreting it.

The question is never whether you are interpreting, the question is whether you are doing it honestly, with good tools, and with some awareness of the assumptions you are bringing to the page.

Plus, every translation you read is already an interpretation. The translators made thousands of decisions about Greek and Hebrew words that have ranges of meaning, and every choice they made reflects a theological and linguistic judgment. The way you divide up a passage, the verse you decide to emphasize, the ones you skip over, the context you bring from your tradition, all of it shapes what you see in the text. Acknowledging that makes you a more honest reader. The most dangerous interpreter of Scripture is not the scholar who admits she has a method, it’s the person who is convinced they have no method at all.

5. The Bible Was Not Written to Answer the Questions You’re Bringing to It

This one might be the most pastorally important. A lot of people walk away from the Bible feeling like it failed them because they brought it questions it was never designed to answer. They wanted it to resolve the age of the earth, or tell them exactly what happens to people who never heard of Jesus, or give them a clear position on every contemporary political issue. When the answers felt forced or contradictory, they assumed something was wrong with them for asking.

I have heard it descrbed as a drama in multiple acts, and that’s a helpful frame. You don’t read a play expecting it to tell you the boiling point of water. You read it to understand something true about what it means to be human and to be in relationship with God. When you come to the Bible looking for that (for a living encounter with the God it testifies to) it delivers in ways that are hard to exhaust. The people who find the Bible most alive are almost always the ones who stopped demanding it be something it never claimed to be.

These five things barely scratch the surface. Each one of them could sustain a much longer conversation, and honestly, that’s exactly what I’m planning. An entire chapter of my upcoming book is dedicated to this. It will cover what the Bible actually is, how it was put together, what its authors were trying to do, and what it looks like to read it in a way that takes it seriously on its own terms rather than forcing it to be something it was never designed to be. I’ve been working on that chapter for a while now and it’s the one I’m most excited about. More on that as we get closer.

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The tradition I was formed in had a very specific Jesus. He was personal, and spiritual, and focused almost entirely on where you go when you die and what you believe in your heart while you’re still alive. That Jesus was mostly unconcerned with saving souls.

It wasn’t until I read Marcus Borg’s The Last Week that a whole new world cracked open for me.

I don’t remember exactly when I read it. It was somewhere in the long stretch of years when I was pastoring and questioning and slowly becoming a different kind of Christian than I started out as, but I remember the feeling of reading the pages and thinking that I had been looking at something my whole life without actually seeing it.

The book is brilliant and illustrates an image I can’t shake.

On Palm Sunday morning, two processions entered Jerusalem from opposite sides of the city. From the west, Pontius Pilate rode in with the Roman cavalry with horses, armor, standards, the full machinery of imperial power on display, and a yearly reminder of who was actually in charge. From the east, Jesus rode in on a borrowed donkey with a crowd of Galilean peasants waving palm branches and shouting words from the Psalms. Borg and his co-author John Dominic Crossan argue that this was not coincidence. It was a counter procession. A piece of deliberate political theater, staged in direct response to Rome’s show of force and it was enacting a completely different vision of what power looks like and where it comes from.

I had read that passage probably a hundred times. I had preached it maybe a dozen, but I had never once seen it as political.

What We Were Trained Not to See

There’s a particular way of reading the gospels that became dominant in American evangelical Christianity, and it works by quietly evacuating Jesus of his historical context. You pull him out of first-century Roman-occupied Judea, you set aside the fact that his people were living under a brutal colonial regime, you treat the religious leaders he kept clashing with as stand-ins for generic human sinfulness rather than as a specific class of people navigating a specific political arrangement with their occupiers, and what you end up with is a Jesus who is spiritually urgent but historically weightless. He’s not really anywhere. He’s not really addressing anything in particular. He’s just saving you.

The problem with that reading is that it’s drastically incomplete. And the parts it leaves out happen to be the parts that most directly challenge the comfortable arrangement between Christianity and power that a lot of American churches have spent decades constructing.

The Sermon on the Mount Wasn’t a Self-Help Talk

When Jesus sat down on that hillside and started speaking, he was announcing a kingdom. And the people listening to him knew, in their bones, what kingdom they were already living under. They felt it in the taxes they paid to Caesar, in the soldiers they had to accommodate, in the religious economy that was deeply entangled with Roman occupation. When Jesus said blessed are the meek, blessed are the peacemakers, blessed are those who hunger and thirst for justice, those words landed in a specific world where meekness was weakness, where there was no peace, and where justice was something the powerful decided on your behalf.

The Sermon on the Mount is political because it describes a completely different ordering of human life than the one his audience was living under. It says the people Rome has decided don’t matter are the ones the kingdom is actually being built around. And whether we like it or not, that is a political claim. The fact that we domesticated it into a list of personal virtues is one of the stranger things Christianity ever did to itself.

Political But Not Partisan

Now, here’s the thing I want to be careful about, because I think it matters a lot.

The Jesus of the gospels resists that pretty aggressively. He frustrated everyone who tried to make him a straightforward political actor. The Zealots wanted a military revolutionary. The Pharisees wanted a Torah purist. The crowds wanted a king. But he kept being something none of them could fully domesticate.

What he offered was a vision. A picture of human community organized around the dignity of the poor, the welcome of the outsider, the rejection of redemptive violence, the subversion of systems that grind people down. That vision has political implications without being reducible to political positions, which is actually harder to sit with than a simple party alignment. It means you have to keep thinking. It means you can’t just vote your values and check out. It means the church is always going to be in some tension with whatever power structure it finds itself inside.

Why This Matters Right Now

If you have been around for a while you know that I write about politics sometimes in this newsletter and I get occasional pushback about it. “The church should stay in its lane.” “Faith is personal.” “Keep Jesus out of it.” I understand that instinct, especially from people who watched evangelicalism turn itself into a political action committee over the last few decades. The desire to have a faith that isn’t weaponized for someone’s agenda is completely legitimate.

But I’ve come to think that the answer to a politicized church isn’t an apolitical church. It’s a church that is honest about the fact that Jesus was not apolitical, that the kingdom he announced has always been in tension with empire, and that following him faithfully in public life is going to look like something. Not a party. Not necessarily a candidate, but something. A set of commitments about who matters and how power should be used and what we owe each other that will always be, in some sense, political.

I’m still working out what that looks like. I think most of us are. But I’m not going back to a Jesus who has nothing to say about the world we’re actually living in. That Jesus, it turns out, was never in the text to begin with.

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One year ago this week, I published my first essay on Substack. I had no idea if anyone would read it. I just knew the conversation needed to happen and I figured if even a handful of people found it useful, it would be worth it.

Over 5,000 subscribers later, I’m sitting here a little stunned.

So first—thank you. Genuinely. You didn’t have to show up, and you did. Week after week. That means more than I know how to say.

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I signed a book deal.

The book is called A Different Kind of Christian: A Guide to Faith, Scripture, and Church After Evangelicalism, and it will be published by Abingdon Press in Fall 2027.

And a quick shoutout—none of this happens without my literary agent at The Bindery Agency, who believed in me and this work before there was much evidence she should. She is so knowledgeable, has been endlessly helpful, and I feel so blessed to have her in my corner.

To be honest, this is the book I wish existed when I was making this transition myself. It’s a practical, pastoral guide for people who’ve left evangelicalism but still want a thoughtful faith and a church community they can actually trust. It walks through the grief of leaving evangelicalism, introduces mainline Christianity in plain language, helps readers find a tradition that fits, and rebuilds a relationship with Scripture and worship that doesn’t feel coercive or fear based.

I can’t believe I get to write this thing, y’all. I really can’t.

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I had a different essay ready to go but I couldn’t stop thinking about what happened last Saturday night, and I’ve learned that when something won’t leave you alone, that’s usually the thing you’re supposed to write about.

A man named Cole Allen, a 31-year-old teacher and engineer from Torrance, California, charged a security checkpoint at the White House Correspondents’ Dinner armed with a shotgun, a handgun, and multiple knives, apparently targeting officials in the Trump administration. A Secret Service officer was struck by at least one round but was protected by a bulletproof vest and is expected to be okay. Nobody died, the suspect is in custody, and by every measurable standard, the security apparatus worked.

The Thought That Scares Me More Than the Shooting

But here’s the thing I keep circling back to. Within hours of the incident, people on social media (not fringe corners, but people I know, people whose judgment I generally trust) were already asking whether this was staged. They wondered if this was political theatre, or a manufactured villain for a moment that conveniently needed one.

Now, I want to be careful here, because I am not saying that’s true. The evidence points to a real person with a real grievance who made a genuinely evil choice. But what I am saying is that we now live in a country where the thought “was this staged?” is no longer absurd to a meaningful portion of the population.

That’s what years of trust erosion does to a culture. It changes what they’re capable of believing.

Before I say anything else, I want to say this plainly. Whatever your politics, whatever your grievances about this administration or any administration, what Cole Allen did was wrong. Charging toward a room full of people with a shotgun and knives is ridiculous. Rage is real and sometimes justified, and it is still not a reason to try to kill people. Violence doesn’t become righteous just because it’s aimed at people we despise, and anyone who tries to quietly cheer this or explain it away is doing something morally dangerous that I think they need to sit with. And I say that as someone who has plenty of my own grief and frustration about the direction of this country.

But Here’s What’s Also True

Some of us have been saying for years that this trajectory leads somewhere dark. Nobody predicted a California teacher charging a hotel security checkpoint with a manifesto and a 12-gauge, but the general shape of it, the fracturing, the radicalization, the collapse of shared reality, this has been visible for a long time to anyone willing to look.

When you treat truth as a rhetorical tool rather than a moral obligation, you lose the social fabric that holds disagreement inside some kind of livable tension.

The Washington Hilton, where Saturday’s dinner was held, is also the site where President Reagan was shot in 1981. American political violence has a long history, but there’s something different happening now, something that feels less like isolated eruptions and more like a culture that has genuinely lost its bearings about what’s real and what’s at stake.

The grief of watching that unfold is hard to describe. It’s not “I told you so” grief. It’s quieter than that. It’s the grief of someone who loved a thing and watched it get hollowed out slowly, and then one day looked up and couldn’t quite find it anymore.

The Prophetic Task Right Now

The Hebrew prophets were not popular people. They didn’t get speaking invitations or book deals. They said what was true when the people in power were actively invested in everyone pretending it wasn’t. That’s not a comfortable role. It’s also not optional for those of us who take the tradition seriously.

The prophetic task right now is not to have all the answers. It’s not to be the smartest person in the room about policy or to produce a perfect political program. It’s actually simpler and harder than that. It is to refuse to pretend we can’t see what we’re seeing. To keep saying, out loud, that democracy requires truth-tellers. That leaders who treat reality as something to be managed and shaped for political convenience are doing damage that outlasts their administrations.

That a country where half the population can’t agree on whether an event even happened is a country in serious trouble.

The church (the actual, historic, confessing church) has something to say in this moment because we are people who believe that truth is not a commodity. We believe the logos, the Word made flesh, is the ground of all reality, and it has consequences for how we live in public, how we speak about power, and how we refuse to normalize the slow death of honesty in our common life.

You don’t have to have perfect clarity right now. I don’t. But if something in you is unsettled right now, trust that. That unsettledness might be the most honest thing you’ve felt in a while.

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Jason and I grew up in the same Southern Baptist church in Amarillo, TX. We heard the same sermons, sang the same songs, and were shaped by the same faith tradition. He went one direction, and I went another. But I've been thinking a lot lately about how we talk about honoring people of different faiths but rarely extend that same dignity to people who walked away from faith entirely. Jason did the hard, honest work of following his questions all the way to the end, and I think that deserves honor. This is his story, and I'm grateful he trusted me with it.

I grew up in the Southern Baptist Church and attended for much of my adulthood. I left Christianity for good around age 35. (I still write about religion and create content about religious news and data.)

Most people don’t step away from faith because of a single thing. It’s not One Big Question that gets in the way of continuing along a familiar, comfortable religious path.

We sometimes picture the loss of faith like a tire blowing out on a highway, leaving debris scattered everywhere and causing a vehicle to shudder and veer off the road. But I think, in a lot of cases, it’s just a slow leak. The air gradually exits until the tire is too flat to move forward safely. That was the case with me. In writing this essay, I considered trying to pinpoint exactly what triggered that flat tire, as if there were a single cause. But it’s not that simple.

Committed to Truth

I know how the flat progressed, though. I grew up a faithful and active church kid in the late 1970s and through the culture wars of the 1980s. I was always the one who asked questions—Why aren’t there dinosaurs in the Garden of Eden story? Who did Adam and Eve’s children marry? Why did God kill all those creatures and people during the Flood? Why did all the Canaanites have to be murdered?—but distinctly remember the lack of good answers. Fifth-graders really aren’t supposed to be asking those kinds of questions anyway.

At the same time, my Sunday School teachers and my youth pastor and traveling revival preachers kept telling me how important it was to pursue the truth. Absolute truth exists, they said, and Jesus was the eternal representation of it. “I am the way and the truth and the life,” Jesus said.

That’s why I kept asking! I was all-in on my commitment to truth, because I knew the truth would stand up against honest questions. And I was DEVOUT devout. I read the Bible every day. I prayed. I was writing and leading high school Bible studies as a high school student. I wrestled with my faith, sought the Lord with all my heart, served my church and community. I read voraciously in my daily “quiet time,” which is what we called our personal morning devotionals. In high school, that reading looked like books by Charles Stanley and Chuck Swindoll and Max Lucado. Those led to reading outside my Evangelical faith tradition, including Catholic authors like Brennan Manning and Henri Nouwen, and those works led to church historians and much deeper theology. I read all the apologetics books. I read the Bible, front to back, multiple times. I memorized lengthy passages. I was choosing to read Jaroslav Pelikan as a 17 year-old, for crying out loud.

I was desperately seeking answers because I HAD SO MANY QUESTIONS.

The tire of my faith was constantly leaking air. I kept airing it up, but just couldn’t figure out how to patch the hole. From around age 15 to 35, I used energy and effort to keep moving forward. My faith was being propped up by my willingness to work hard, to seek God, to pray for more faith and to engage with theology in search of certainty.

A List of My Problems

For the purposes of this essay, I figured I should make a list of those questions. These were the religious problems, logical inconsistencies and hurdles I spent decades with, unsuccessfully trying to find my way around them. It was never one thing. It was all the things.

(A quick note: I’m not listing these as “gotcha” questions, but as examples of the things I wrestled with for 20 years. These aren’t new to anyone, and I know that apologists have answers. I know those answers. I did the work. I never found the satisfaction I sought.)

A quick list:

● The existence of suffering: Human suffering, yes, but even within the animal kingdom. Every creature created by God and designed for this world is doomed to die, likely in a violent and painful way. Is life that cheap? The suffering of sentient creatures was something I could never reconcile with a God who called Creation good, even after the Fall. What kind of divine being intends or allows a world like this?

● Biblical contradictions or historical inaccuracies: I grew up being taught we should take the Bible seriously and literally, but I kept seeing things in scripture that didn’t match other scriptures. I began studying the Bible seriously to find my way past these errors. Reading it in depth only uncovered more. If the Bible is God’s truth, why was so much of it clearly untrue?

● Church history is ugly: Things like colonialism, racism, slavery, complicity in abuse. These didn’t match the teachings about the life-changing power of the Gospel. Jesus clearly wasn’t transforming humanity for the better, at least not at the institutional level. I began studying this academically and found disappointment around every corner.

● Prophecy and faith healing: I wanted this kind of prayer and miraculous outpouring of God’s presence to be real. I was a Southern Baptist kid who wanted desperately to have a charismatic experience. But no one honestly reckoned with these failures of prophecy or fake healings. The stories of dramatic examples “from Africa” fell apart on investigation. People were always getting healed of back pain or blood diseases, but no one ever regrew an amputated limb.

● Science and faith: From Copernicus to Darwin, these felt genuinely irreconcilable, particularly when it came to evolution or cosmology. Science kept explaining things that we previously got wrong or attributed to divinity. Every time science filled a gap that faith had previously occupied, I kept waiting for that to feel like an attack on God. But it just felt like learning.

● The atonement: Atonement theory is so central to Christianity, and of course I know that there are other Christian ways to wiggle around the preposterousness of atonement theory. But I spent so many of my teenage years just secretly wondering why this was the way it is. Why does an all-powerful God require blood to forgive? If God created these rules of justice, couldn’t God simply change them? Why couldn’t an omnipotent God find a less violent solution? Why would God design a redemption system that structurally excludes most humans who ever lived? How are we supposed to worship a father who says, “I love you unconditionally, but someone has to be hurt before I can forgive you”?

● The canon: Sweet Moses, I have spent SO much of my time reading about the development of the canon. If God’s primary method of communicating truth to all of humanity across all of history is the Bible, a collection of texts, then the reliability of those texts matters enormously. The stakes couldn’t be higher. But even the most surface-level study of the canon shows it was assembled, edited, and canonized by humans with political interests. That was so unsettling to me, especially after I realized historians and Bible scholars have been wrestling with this for centuries.

● One-way prayer: Again, I sought God seriously and legitimately and faithfully for 20 years. I prayed for faith. For understanding. For his presence. I got nothing. When we pray for something and it happens, it becomes a testimony. When we pray for something and it doesn’t happen, we excuse it. It’s all confirmation bias, and it works the same whether you’re praying to the God of Christianity, to Allah, to Ganesh or to Thor.

● Other world religions: I couldn’t shake the question of why Christianity gets default truth status, or why the eternal destination of a human soul was based so much on geography. And the exclusivity of it! The idea that billions of people who never heard the Gospel are condemned through no fault of their own. I kept thinking that, if I had been born in Saudi Arabia, I probably would have been a Muslim. Was the fate of my soul attributable to the luck of geography?

● Hell: The idea of eternal conscious torment disturbed me so much as a kid. I had nightmares. So many traveling evangelists harped on this reality. I had so much fear that my faith wasn’t real and that eternal burning was my future. Later I began to realize how the doctrine felt morally incompatible with a loving God, and how most of what I understood about hell developed outside the Christian tradition—from the ancient Greeks to Dante.

● Anxiety: As an adult, I realized how much of my anxiety was tied to my faith, from my attempts to follow and live within God’s will to the eternal status of my soul. Where was the “peace that passes understanding”?

● Divine hiddenness: If God desires a relationship with everyone, why is God’s existence not more obvious? The “God wants us to choose him freely” argument in response sounds satisfying for about thirty seconds before it starts falling apart. Awareness and coercion are not the same thing.

● Cultural context: The Bible’s endorsement or tolerance of slavery, genocide, and treatment of women as direct commands bothered me, even as a teenager. The argument against this sounds reasonable on the surface (of course, ancient texts reflect ancient cultures!), but you can’t tell me God is the source of objective truth and morality but also he accommodated these terrible ancient moral intuitions. If that worked, then why can’t God accommodate today’s moral intuitions? Speaking of…

● Moral progress outside the church: From environmentalism to women’s rights to racism to LGBTQ+ acceptance, I kept noticing the church ending up on the wrong side of what felt to me very much like moral progress. This was the institution supposedly following the source of objective truth and morality, yet I consistently found it taking sides that felt morally wrong to me—someone whose morality was formed by my Christian upbringing.

That’s enough of those questions. There are many more, and I’m sure spelling them out doesn’t matter. The apologists have answered them all! They are easily reconciled! Except for me, I guess. I spent years with them swirling in my mind, at various intensities.

If the arguments didn’t work, I was taught to find comfort in the fact that “God’s ways are higher” than my ways. My own heart is “deceitful above all things,” you know. I should trust in the Lord and lean not on my own understanding. In isolation, these aren’t bad ideas. But developed systematically they train people to distrust the cognitive tools God supposedly gave us—the tools that help me evaluate whether a belief is true.

Two Assumptions

People who know that I deconstructed have assumed one of two things. First, that something bad must have happened to me. That’s not true at all. All the best parts of my personality were forged in my church upbringing. Church people are my people. I am still invested in learning more about the Bible. I love Christian history and the idea of religion, period. I just am not working so hard to believe it anymore.

Second, people wonder if the intellectual nature of my questions mean I “read myself out of faith.” Maybe that’s accurate, but let me tell you what I was reading: The Bible. Biblical commentaries. Church history. Apologetics. Theology. Should I not have been reading that stuff? I was expressing the values the church taught me: that absolute truth exists and that we should seek it with our whole heart. I did. I pursued it right out of faith.

I didn’t lose faith because I stopped caring about truth. I left because I kept caring about it.

This reference will be lost on younger generations, but in Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Robert Pirsig writes about the South Indian Monkey Trap. Villagers would catch monkeys by hollowing out a coconut, filling it with rice, and chaining it to a post. The hole was just big enough for a monkey to reach in with an open hand, but too small to pull a closed fist back through once it had grabbed the rice. The monkey makes a fist inside the coconut and won’t let go. It’s not trapped by the coconut. It’s trapped by its own stubbornness.

When my kids began reaching the age where they were asking the same questions, I realized I had held on to faith for too long. I fought. I struggled. I ignored my intuition because accepting the simplest answer—Maybe this whole thing just isn’t true?—was too uncomfortable.

Here’s why: The entire system is designed to make letting go feel like loss. If you release your grip on inerrancy, you’re on a slippery slope. If you question the atonement, you’re questioning the gospel itself. If you sit with doubt too long, that’s a spiritual problem, not an intellectual one. Every question had a cost attached to it. Every loosened finger felt like betrayal.

But at some point I understood the threat only works if you keep your fist closed. The moment you open your hand and let go, the trap has no mechanism. I just had to allow myself to ask whether what I was holding onto might actually not be accurate, or coherent, or good.

So I let go. I walked away.

On the other side, outside the trap, I didn’t encounter all the things I’d been told to expect. Sin or debauchery. Meaninglessness. Nihilism. Despair. What I found instead was that the values my faith had built in me—curiosity, compassion, a hunger for truth—didn’t require that faith to survive. They were already mine. I still care deeply about how I treat people, and tried to teach those values to my kids. I still find the world astonishing. I still think ethics matter enormously. And this surprises some people: I am still very pro-religion. I find the world’s religious traditions, in all their variety and contradictions, to be among the most revealing things humans have ever produced about what it means to be human.

But mostly what I found was personal peace. When you spend 25 years wrestling, it feels really, really good finally to not wrestle.

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He is also the author of 12 Major World Religions: The Beliefs, Rituals, and Traditions of Humanity’s Most Influential Faiths.

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I have been sitting with a strange feeling all morning, trying to figure out what to call it. It is not quite shock (nothing feels shocking anymore) and it is not quite anger, though there is some of that too. It is something closer to recognition. Like watching a scene you have read about in a book play out in real life, and realizing the book was trying to warn you about something.

This week, the President of the United States attacked the Pope. He went on social media and called Pope Leo XIV weak, terrible, and suggested that Leo only has his job because of Trump. THEN, forty minutes later, he posted an AI-generated image of himself as Jesus Christ with robes, glowing hands, healing the sick, American flags and fighter jets filling the sky behind him. This is the literal definition of blasphemy, y’all.

What Leo Actually Said

It is worth pausing to understand what Pope Leo did to earn this response, because the answer tells you everything you need to know about what is actually happening here. He looked at a war being waged in the name of God, watched a president threaten to destroy an entire civilization, and said that God does not bless any conflict. He said that invoking the holy name of God to justify discourses of death is wrong. He canceled a planned visit to the United States to go sit with migrants instead.

That is what got him attacked. Witness.

Pope Leo, responding to Trump, said something that I think deserves to be read slowly. He said that Trump’s framing shows “not understanding what the message of the Gospel is.” He said he would not enter into debate. And then he got on a plane to visit migrants in Algeria. That is a man who knows what he believes and has decided to simply keep doing it regardless of who is watching or who is angry.

The Pattern Underneath the Post

Here is what I keep coming back to. When Leo was first elected (the first American pope in history) Trump celebrated. He posted that it was a great honor for the country. He tried to claim him. He wanted Leo to be his pope, an American pope for an American Christianity, a religious leader who would line up behind the flag and the jets and the war and call it blessed. And when Leo would not do that, when he kept saying that the Gospel has something to say about how we treat the poor and the immigrant and the enemy, Trump did what he always does with people who refuse to perform loyalty. He turned on him completely. He called him weak. He suggested he should be grateful.

Then he posted himself as Jesus. (Which he now claims he was depicting himself as a doctor)

What the Healing Stories Are Actually About

I want to say something about that image, because I think it deserves more than a gasp. The image shows Trump in robes, glowing hands outstretched over a man in a hospital bed, surrounded by a nurse, a soldier, and what appears to be an ICE officer. American monuments fill the background. Fighter jets streak across the sky. The whole thing is drenched in the iconography of empire.

And then I think about the actual healing stories in the gospels. Jesus healed a leper—someone the religious establishment had declared unclean and untouchable, someone kept outside the city walls. He healed a Roman centurion’s servant, crossing every social boundary that existed to do it. He healed people on the Sabbath and got in trouble for it because the institution was more concerned with the rules than with the person bleeding in front of them. He healed a woman who had been hemorrhaging for twelve years and had spent everything she had on doctors who couldn’t help her. He touched people that nobody else would touch.

The people in the background of that AI image (the jets, the soldiers, the monuments, the eagles) those are not the people Jesus was healing. Those are the people he was healing people from.

Read that again. ^

Why This Moment Is Different

I want to be careful here, because I am aware that American presidents have always wrapped their agendas in religious language. This is not new. The civil religion of America has always blurred the line between the flag and the cross, and the church has always had to resist the pull of that conflation. What feels different now is the directness of it. The claim being made is that America is God’s instrument, that the war is God’s war, that the president who wages it is, apparently, God’s stand-in.

And the Pope (an imperfect man leading an imperfect institution, like every human and institution that has ever existed) looked at all of that and said no. He read the Gospel and came to conclusions about what it means, and then he acted on those conclusions even when it cost him something.

I think there is a word for that. And that word is faithful.

What Faithful Looks Like When It Costs Something

After leaving pastoral ministry in 2022 what brought me back, more than anything else, was encountering people who held their faith with both hands even when the institution around them was letting them down. People who kept showing up. People who kept saying the true thing even when the easier thing was available.

Leo is doing that. On a world stage, in a moment when the most powerful person in the world is telling him to get in line, he is just continuing to do what he understands the Gospel to ask of him. He said he would not enter into debate and then he got on a plane.

For those of us who have spent years trying to untangle the Gospel from the machinery that has been built around it or trying to figure out what following Jesus actually looks like when you strip away the political performance and the institutional loyalty and the brand management…watching this is something. It is a reminder that faithfulness is not complicated. It is just costly. And the people who practice it tend to be too busy actually doing it to spend much time talking about it.

The Pope said no. And then he went to be with the people Jesus spent his life with. That’s the whole story.

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You don’t need me to list it all out, you already know. You’ve already seen the headlines this week, probably more than once, probably late at night when you told yourself you were just going to check one thing. The economic anxiety is real, the political noise is real, the sense that something foundational is shifting beneath your feet and nobody in charge seems particularly concerned about it is real. And if you’ve spent any time at all in deconstruction or reconstruction, you came into this moment already a little tired or already a little tender. Probably already carrying more than most people around you probably realize.

The world actually is a lot right now. This isn’t anxiety lying to you. Some of what you’re feeling is just honest grief about real things, and it deserves to be treated that way. What I want to gently push back on is the idea that consuming more of it is the same thing as caring about it, or that staying perpetually activated is the same thing as staying faithfully engaged. It’s not!

And the tradition we’re recovering together has something to say about that.

The ancient church didn’t have the twenty-four-hour news cycle, obviously, but they knew what it felt like to live in an empire that was chaotic and cruel and completely indifferent to their wellbeing. They developed practices to stay rooted enough to live in it with integrity. These are spiritual disciplines that have survived every empire that tried to outlast them, and I think they’re worth trying again.

1. Let Silence Be the First Word

Most of us have never actually experienced intentional silence because we’ve never let it get quiet enough to find out what’s in there. The moment there’s a gap, we fill it. Whether it’s the commute, the line at the grocery store, or the thirty seconds before sleep—we reach for the phone because the silence feels like wasted space, and also because the silence is where all the things we’ve been avoiding are waiting patiently for us.

Henri Nouwen wrote in The Way of the Heart that solitude is the furnace of transformation, the place where we stop performing even for ourselves and simply exist before God. That sounds beautiful and it is, but it’s worth saying that it doesn’t start beautiful. It starts uncomfortable. It starts confrontational. The first few times you actually sit in quiet without giving yourself an exit ramp, what comes up is usually the thing you’ve been outrunning. Maybe it is the fear you dressed up as productivity. Or the grief you buried under information. But if you stay in it, something eventually settles because you stopped sprinting away from yourself long enough to remember who you are underneath them. Even fifteen minutes of silence in your day changes the texture of the whole thing.

2. Pray Words That Have Already Survived

One of the quieter gifts of liturgical tradition is the way fixed prayers function when you have nothing left to generate on your own. When you’re too wrung out to come up with original spiritual thoughts, you can borrow someone else’s. The Psalms especially. Psalm 46 has been close to me lately.

“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, though the mountains shake in the heart of the sea.”

That was written by someone who also believed the world was coming apart at the seams. It has been prayed through plagues and wars and famines and the rise and fall of empires. It arrived on the other side of all of it still intact.

There is something deeply stabilizing about praying words that belong to the whole communion of saints across all of history. You are not the first person to feel like the ground is moving. You are not the first person to be frightened by what the powerful are doing. You are not the first person to wonder whether hope is still a reasonable thing to hold onto. Millions of people before you have stood exactly where you’re standing, in the middle of their own version of this, and they prayed these same words.

3. Find One Person and Tell Them the Truth

Not to vent to, not to doomscroll alongside, just one person you can tell the actual truth to. Words like “I’m scared”, or “I don’t know how to hold all of this.” The early church was a community of people who had decided to face hard and frightening things together rather than alone, and that shared witness was itself a form of resistance against despair. You don’t need a program for this, or a formal small group, or the right setting. You need one person who will sit with you in it without trying to fix it or explain it away or hand you a verse and call it done.

And for some of us, one trusted friend isn’t enough. If the anxiety is persistent, if the dread is starting to color everything, if you’re finding it hard to function in your normal life, please consider talking to a therapist or counselor. There is nothing unspiritual about that. In fact I’d argue the opposite. Seeking professional help when you need it is one of the most grounded and self-aware things a person can do. It’s taking your own inner life seriously enough to give it real attention. The church has sometimes made people feel like faith should be sufficient for everything, and that getting outside help is a failure of trust. That is bad theology and it has hurt a lot of people. Your nervous system is not a spiritual deficiency. A good therapist is a gift, and you’re allowed to use one.

One More Thing

None of this will stop the news from being what it is. The world is going to keep being complicated and loud and sometimes frightening, and no practice makes that untrue. But there is a difference between a person who is slowly shaped by the chaos and a person who is grounded enough to stand inside it without losing themselves. That’s what all of this is reaching toward. Just enough rootedness to stay human, to stay present, and to stay open to what God might still be doing in the middle of all of it.

If this found you at the right moment, pass it along to someone who might need it. And if you want to keep thinking through this kind of thing together, I’d love for you to support my work by becoming a paid subscriber. This community is one of the places I’m trying to practice what I just wrote.

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I’ve told this story before, but it matters here so I’m going to tell it again. In the summer of 2022, I stepped away from pastoral ministry completely. I had spent a decade leading a non-denominational evangelical church and I was done. Not just tired. Done. Done. The kind of done where you’re not sure you’ll ever go back.

I wasn’t angry exactly, I was something worse. I had become cynical. I had seen too much. Too much politics disguised as theology. Too many power plays wrapped in prayer language. Too many leaders who cared more about the brand than the people. And somewhere in the middle of all that I had lost the thing that had called me into ministry in the first place. I couldn’t feel it anymore. The fire or the pull or whatever you want to call it. It was just gone, and I didn’t know if it was coming back.

We were living in Texas at the time and my wife, and I spent two years trying to find a church that felt like home. We visited dozens of places, and nothing fit. Everything felt like a version of what we’d left or a version of something we couldn’t quite connect with. Two years is a long time to wander without a spiritual home. Long enough that you start to wonder if maybe you’re the problem.

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The Sentence That Changed Everything

In June of 2024 I went to visit a friend in Kansas City. He was on staff at a church called Resurrection, A United Methodist Church. We were just hanging out for the weekend. Catching up. Nothing spiritual on the agenda. And at some point, in the conversation, he said something to me that I wasn’t expecting and wasn’t prepared for. He told me it would be a shame if I wasn’t in ministry.

That’s it. That was the whole thing. One sentence over a casual weekend visit. No dramatic intervention. No prophetic word delivered with a booming voice and a hand on my forehead. Just a friend who looked at me and said I still see it in you, even if you don’t.

I don’t know how to explain what happened inside me when he said that. Something that had been locked up for two years cracked open. Not all at once. Not like a light switch. More like a door that had been sealed shut for so long I forgot it was there and someone just barely pushed it open enough to let a little light through. That conversation set in motion a chain of events that brought my family to Kansas City and brought me back into ministry in a way I never could have predicted or planned.

Hope showed up that weekend. As a person. As a friend who believed in me when I had stopped believing in myself.

The Cynicism Trap

I understand cynicism. I lived in it for two years. And I can tell you that cynicism is one of the most seductive postures a person can adopt because it feels like wisdom. It feels like you’ve finally seen through the nonsense and arrived at the truth. The church is broken. People are disappointing. Institutions are corrupt. Nothing ever really changes. And once you’ve settled into that mindset it becomes very difficult to leave because leaving feels naive. Hope feels foolish when you’ve been burned enough times.

And our culture runs on cynicism right now. Turn on the news and everything is a crisis. Open social media and everyone is outraged or exhausted or both. The general consensus seems to be that things are getting worse, people can’t be trusted, and optimism is for people who haven’t been paying attention. And honestly there are days when the evidence for that position feels overwhelming.

The church is not immune. Deconstruction spaces in particular can become breeding grounds for cynicism if we’re not careful. And I say that as someone who writes in that space every single week. There is a version of deconstruction that tears everything down and never builds anything back up. That identifies every problem with the old system and offers nothing in its place. That becomes so skilled at critique that it forgets how to hope. I’ve been there, and it’s a dead end.

Resurrection Is Not a Concept

Here’s what I’ve learned about hope. It almost never shows up the way you expect it to. It doesn’t arrive as a theological argument that finally convinces you everything is going to be okay. Or through a book or a podcast or a perfectly worded Instagram post. Hope, in my experience, almost always shows up as a person. Someone who sees you. Someone who sits with you in the wreckage and doesn’t try to fix it or explain it or fast-forward through it but who simply says I’m still here and I still believe something good is coming.

That’s what Easter is about, friends. And I don’t mean Easter as a holiday with lilies and new outfits and a sunrise service. I mean the actual resurrection. The thing itself. The audacious, ridiculous, world-altering claim that death does not get the last word. That the worst thing is never the last thing. That a man walked out of a tomb and in doing so rewrote the entire story of what is possible.

I spent six weeks in this series asking you to sit in hard things. Mortality. Hunger. Confession. Lament. Silence. Grief. I asked you not to rush through them. I asked you to let Lent be Lent, and I hope you did. Because here’s what I believe with everything in me.

The hope of Easter only means something if you’ve actually walked through the valley to get there.

Resurrection that skips death is denial. But resurrection that comes after you’ve sat in the tomb for three days, or two years, or however long your particular wilderness lasts? That kind of resurrection will wreck you in the best possible way.

The Door Is Open

If you’re reading this and you’re in the cynical season right now, I want you to hear something. You are not too far gone. You are not too burned. You are not too deconstructed or too disillusioned or too done for hope to find you. I know because hope found me in a living room in Kansas City when I had absolutely zero expectation that it would. It just showed up wearing the face of a friend and said one sentence that blew the door open.

That’s how God works. Through people who love you enough to tell you the truth about who you are when you’ve forgotten. Through a meal and a conversation and a weekend visit that you didn’t know was going to change your life. Through the stubborn, relentless, unshakeable insistence that dead things don’t have to stay dead.

This whole Lenten series has been about the season we’d rather skip, and I get it. Nobody wants to sit in ashes and hunger and grief and silence. We want the Easter part. We want the hope and the joy and the lilies and the hallelujah. But the road to Easter goes through all of it. Every single bit of it. And if you’ve walked that road with me these past seven weeks, I want you to know that I’m grateful. And I want you to know that the tomb is empty. And I want you to know that hope is not naive. It’s the bravest thing you’ll ever choose to believe.

Happy Easter, yall.

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A few months ago a guy I grew up with sent me a message here on Substack. We played baseball together as kids. He said he used to think the world of me and my brother. He said he’d been praying about it and felt like he couldn’t stay silent. And then he told me he was genuinely worried about my salvation.

He wasn’t mean about it. That’s the part that made it so hard. He wasn’t trolling or picking a fight. He was a guy from my hometown who remembered me as a kid and believed with every fiber of his being that I was in spiritual danger. He told me my writing was misleading and manipulative. He told me I was bending scripture to fit the world. He quoted 1 Timothy and begged me to reconsider the path I was on. And then he signed off by saying he prayed for me to have the peace and love of Jesus.

I sat with that message for a long time, and I wasn’t angry. I was just sad. Because that message represents something that doesn’t get talked about nearly enough in deconstruction spaces. It represents grief. The slow, quiet kind of grief that settles in when you realize that people you love and respect are never going to be able to follow you to where you’ve landed. And that some of them will interpret the most honest season of your faith as evidence that you’ve lost it entirely.

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The Death Nobody Sends Flowers For

When someone you love dies, the world makes space for your grief, at least for a little while. People bring food, they send cards, and your employer usually gives you a few days off. There kind of a cultural script for mourning the loss of a person and even though that script is inadequate in about a hundred ways, at least it exists.

But when you leave a faith tradition, there is no script. No casseroles show up at your door. Nobody sends a sympathy card that says “sorry you lost your entire theological framework and half your friendships in the process.” There is no bereavement leave for the death of your old belief system. And yet the grief is still very real. It is heavy and disorienting and it can last for years.

I trust me, I know, because I’ve lived it. Leaving evangelicalism cost me relationships I thought were permanent. It changed the way certain family members look at me. It has rearranged my social world in ways I’m still sorting out. And the hardest part wasn’t the people who got angry, it was the people who got sad. The people who looked at me with genuine concern and said they were praying for me (not to be passive aggressive) but because they sincerely believed I was walking away from God. That kind of love, the kind that comes wrapped in the theological certainty that you’re headed straight for destruction, is one of the most painful things I’ve ever experienced. Because you can’t argue with it and you can’t fix it. You can only grieve it.

The Bounce-Back Problem

And our culture has a very specific expectation about grief. You’re allowed to be sad for a little while. A few weeks, maybe a month. And then you should be getting back to normal. Moving on. Finding your new church. Rebuilding your community. Getting over it. The timeline varies depending on who you ask but the underlying message is always the same. Grief is just a phase. It has an expiration date. And if you’re still in it past that date then something is wrong with you.

The church is often even worse about this than the broader culture. There is an unspoken expectation in many Christian communities that grief should resolve quickly into worship. Or that sadness should transform into praise. That the appropriate Christian response to loss is to fast-forward to the part where God works it all together for good and to skip the long, messy, formless middle where nothing makes sense and the only honest prayer is “how long, O Lord?”

Nicholas Wolterstorff lost his twenty-five-year-old son in a mountain climbing accident. In his book Lament for a Son, he wrote something that stopped me cold. He said “every lament is a love song.” I think about that constantly now, because it reframes everything. Grief is not the absence of faith, or some kind of spiritual failure…

Grief is what love looks like when it has lost the thing it loves.

And we have to stop rushing people through that process.

Letting Grief Be Grief

Jesus never rushed anyone through their pain. When Mary and Martha were grieving Lazarus, he didn’t show up and immediately fix it. He wept with them first. He entered the grief before he entered the miracle, and I think the order matters more than we realize. Because it tells us something about the heart of God that all of our bounce-back theology misses entirely. God is not in a hurry to get past your pain. God is not standing at the end of your grief with a stopwatch, tapping his foot, wondering when you’re going to pull it together. God is sitting in it with you. For as long as it takes.

That message from my old baseball teammate still sits in my inbox. I haven’t deleted it. I probably won’t. It represents something I lost that I’m still learning to grieve. A version of belonging that doesn’t exist for me anymore. A world where everyone I grew up with was on the same page and the answers were simple and the people who loved you never had to worry about your salvation because you all believed the same things.

That world is gone for me, and I’m okay. But okay and grieving are not mutually exclusive. You can be further along than you’ve ever been in your faith and still feel the ache of what it cost to get there. Both things can be true at the same time. Lent makes space for that. The whole season is an invitation to stop fast-forwarding through the hard parts and just let them be hard for a while.

Try This

This week, give yourself permission to grieve something you haven’t fully grieved yet. Maybe it’s a relationship that didn’t survive your deconstruction. Maybe it’s a community you had to leave. Maybe it’s a version of God you used to believe in that you can’t believe in anymore. Whatever it is, don’t rush past it. Don’t slap a Bible verse on it. Don’t skip to the resurrection. (It’s not even Holy Week yet.) Just sit in the loss and let it be what it is. A love song for something that mattered to you. That’s one of the most faithful things you can do this Lent.

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Everybody has an opinion about everything now. And not just an opinion but an urgent, fully formed, publicly stated opinion that needs to be shared within the first fifteen minutes of any event happening anywhere in the world. A politician says something controversial and within seconds your feed is a wall of hot takes. A celebrity makes a statement and suddenly everyone you know is a cultural commentator. A tragedy happens and before the facts are even clear there are already a thousand threads telling you exactly what it means and who is to blame and what you should think about it.

We are drowning in words. And I don’t think most of us realize how much it’s costing us.

I read somewhere recently that the average American consumes somewhere around thirty-four gigabytes of information per day. I don’t even know what that means exactly but it sounds like way too much. We wake up and reach for the phone before our feet hit the floor. We fill the car with podcasts. We scroll through lunch. We fall asleep to Netflix. Every available moment of silence gets stuffed with content and noise and opinion and commentary until there is literally no space left in the day where we are just quiet. Just still. Just existing without someone else’s words in our heads.

And the church has bought into this completely. Pastors feel the pressure to make public statements about every cultural moment within hours of it happening. If you don’t post your take fast enough, people assume you either don’t care or you’re on the wrong side. Social media has turned ministry into a never-ending press conference where silence is interpreted as complicity and thoughtfulness is mistaken for cowardice. The hot take has replaced the sermon as the primary unit of pastoral communication and I think we’ve lost something enormous in the exchange.

My Commute

This Lent I made a commitment that sounded simple and turned out to be one of the hardest things I’ve done in a while. I decided to drive to and from work in complete silence. No podcasts. No music. No phone calls. No audiobooks. Just me and the road and thirty minutes of nothing each way.

The first few days were brutal. I’m not exaggerating. The silence felt physically uncomfortable, like an itch I couldn’t scratch. My hand kept reaching for the phone. My brain kept racing to fill the gap with something, anything, because apparently I have trained myself over the years to be incapable of sitting in a quiet car without external stimulation. That realization alone was worth the experiment.

But somewhere around the end of the first week something started to shift. The noise in my head began to quiet down. Not all at once and not completely, but enough that I started to notice things I hadn’t noticed before. Ideas I didn’t know I was carrying. Convictions I’d been too busy to feel. Creative thoughts that had been waiting patiently for a gap in the noise to slip through. Some mornings the Holy Spirit showed up in that silence in ways that genuinely surprised me. Not in a dramatic, clouds-parting kind of way. More like a quiet nudge. A thought I didn’t generate on my own. A gentle correction I probably would have missed if I’d had a podcast filling the space instead.

Five hours a week. That’s what an hour of silence a day during the work week adds up to. And I can tell you honestly that those five hours have been more formative than most of the content I’ve consumed in the last year, because it turns out you can’t hear much of anything when you never stop talking.

The Ministry of Shutting Up

James 1:19 might be the most ignored verse in the entire New Testament. “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.” Quick to listen. Slow to speak. Read that again and then open any social media platform and notice how completely we’ve inverted that instruction.

We are quick to speak, slow to listen, and angry about everything all the time.

We have built an entire culture around the exact opposite of what James is telling us to do and then we wonder why everything feels so exhausting and fruitless.

Henri Nouwen understood this. He wrote that “silence is the home of the word” and that “without silence, the word loses its power.” I’ve been sitting with that idea during these quiet commutes and I think he’s right in a way that goes deeper than just personal devotion. Our words have lost their power because we’ve multiplied them beyond all reason. We speak so much and so fast and so constantly that nothing we say carries weight anymore. Everything is content. Everything is a take. Everything is noise piled on top of noise until the signal is completely buried.

Nouwen spent significant time living in monastic communities and what he discovered there wasn’t that monks had figured out how to escape the world. It was that they had figured out how to be present in it. Silence wasn’t just the absence of something, it was the presence of something. It was the space where God’s voice could actually land because someone had finally stopped talking long enough to hear it.

What Silence Isn’t

I want to be careful here because I don’t want to over-spiritualize this. Not every silent commute ends with a divine revelation. Some mornings I just drove to work and thought about what I was going to have for lunch. And that’s fine. Silence doesn’t have to be productive. It doesn’t have to result in a spiritual breakthrough or a creative epiphany or a moment of profound clarity. Sometimes silence is just silence. And in a world that demands constant output and constant engagement and constant noise, just being quiet for thirty minutes is a radical act all by itself.

But I will say this. The days when something does break through are the days that remind me why this matters. There is a version of my life where I fill every available second with sound and stimulation and never once create enough space for God to get a word in. I’ve lived that version. Most of us have. And it’s exhausting in a way that has nothing to do with physical tiredness and everything to do with spiritual depletion.

You can be busy for God and completely deaf to God at the same time.

I know because I’ve done it.

Try This

This week, find your silence. You don’t have to join a monastery or go on a retreat or sit cross-legged on a cushion for an hour. Just pick one space in your day that you normally fill with noise and leave it empty. The commute. The morning coffee. The walk to pick up the kids. Whatever it is, let it be quiet. Don’t fill it. Don’t optimize it. Just sit in it and see what happens when you give your soul a few minutes without words.

You might hear nothing. You might hear everything. Either way, you’ll be practicing something the church has known for two thousand years that our culture has almost entirely forgotten.

Sometimes the most faithful thing you can do is close your mouth and open your ears.

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“Everything happens for a reason.” I cannot tell you how many times I’ve heard that sentence in a church. After a miscarriage. After a diagnosis. After a death that made no sense and never will. It rolls off the tongue so easily, this little theological bumper sticker, and the person saying it almost always means well. They’re trying to help. They’re trying to offer comfort. But what they’re actually doing is placing a period at the end of someone’s pain before that person has even had a chance to finish their sentence.

We have a positivity problem in the American church. And I don’t mean that we’re too joyful or too hopeful. Joy and hope are beautiful things. I mean that we have built an entire religious culture around the idea that sadness is a problem to be solved, that grief is a season to be rushed through, and that if you sit in your pain for too long something must be wrong with your faith. We have turned optimism into orthodoxy. And it is destroying people.

The Day Everything Changed

My twin brother and his wife were expecting a baby girl. Her name was Ellington. I remember the excitement in his voice when he told me. I remember the plans being made for her arrival. And then Ellington was stillborn.

What happened next is the part that still makes me angry. Not at God (although that definitely happened), but at the theology that showed up uninvited to my brother’s grief. People who loved him and meant well began saying the things that Christians say when they don’t know what else to do. God has a plan. She’s in a better place. The Lord gives and the Lord takes away. Everything happens for a reason. Every single one of those sentences landed on my brother like a brick. Because what he heard underneath all of that well-meaning theology was that God wanted his daughter to die. That this was the plan all along. That the God who supposedly loved him had designed this nightmare on purpose.

I couldn’t let that stand. I sat with my brother and I told him something that I believed with everything in me. God didn’t want this. God didn’t plan this. God is heartbroken too. And I watched something shift in his eyes when he heard that. Not because I had all the answers. I didn’t. But because for the first time someone had given him permission to grieve without having to pretend it was all part of some divine blueprint.

The Problem with Blueprint Theology

Jessica Kelley knows this territory better than most. When her four-year-old son Henry was diagnosed with brain cancer, the Christian cliches came pouring in. God’s will. Divine design. The Lord’s perfect plan. In her book Lord Willing?, Kelley dismantles what she calls “blueprint theology,” the widespread belief that God has a detailed plan for everything that happens, including the most horrific suffering imaginable. She argues that this framework doesn’t just fail to comfort people, it actively harms them. Because if God planned your child’s death then either God is cruel or your grief is an act of rebellion against his sovereignty. Neither of those options leaves room for an honest relationship with the divine.

And I want to pause here because it’s Women’s History Month and I think Kelley’s work deserves far more attention than it gets. She writes with the authority of someone who has walked through the worst thing a parent can experience and come out the other side with a faith that is more honest and more beautiful than the one she started with. If you haven’t read Lord Willing?, put it on your list. It might change the way you think about God and suffering forever.

Lament Is Not a Lack of Faith

Here’s what toxic positivity in the church gets wrong. It assumes that grief and faith are opposites. That if you’re lamenting then you must not be trusting. That sadness is evidence of spiritual failure. But the scriptures tell a completely different story. The Psalms are full of lament. Nearly a third of them are psalms of complaint or sorrow or raw, unfiltered anguish directed straight at God. David didn’t sugarcoat his pain. He didn’t slap a worship chorus on top of his grief and pretend everything was fine. He screamed at God. He asked why. He said things that would get him escorted out of most contemporary worship services.

And God never once told him to stop.

Jesus himself wept at the tomb of Lazarus. Think about that for a second. He knew he was about to raise Lazarus from the dead. He knew the resurrection was coming. And he still wept. Because the pain was real and the loss was real and the appropriate response to real suffering is tears.

Lent gives us permission to sit in that space. The whole season is an invitation to stop pretending, stop performing, stop rushing to the happy ending. We spend so much of the year sprinting toward Easter that we forget the road there goes straight through the valley. And the valley is part of the path.

What If We Stopped Fixing and Started Sitting

If you’ve ever been in pain and had someone try to fix it with a Bible verse or a platitude, you know how isolating that feels. It doesn’t feel like love. It feels like being told to shut up in religious language. And if you’ve ever been the person offering those platitudes (I have, more times than I want to admit), then Lent is an invitation to repent of that impulse and learn a different way.

The most Christlike thing you can do for someone who is suffering is not to explain their pain. It’s to sit in it with them. No answers. No silver linings. No “at least” statements. Just presence. Just the willingness to say I don’t know why this happened and I’m not going to pretend I do but I am here and I am not leaving.

That’s what I tried to do for my brother. I didn’t have a theology of suffering neatly packaged and ready to deliver. I just had the conviction that God was not the author of his pain and that his grief was not a problem to be solved. Ellington mattered. Her absence mattered. And no amount of positive thinking or theological spin was going to make that less true.

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This week, resist the urge to fix someone’s pain. If someone in your life is grieving or struggling or just having a hard time, practice the ministry of presence instead of the ministry of answers. Sit with them. Listen. Let the silence be uncomfortable. And if you’re the one in pain right now, give yourself permission to lament. You are not failing at faith. You are practicing the most ancient and biblical form of it. The Psalms have been waiting for you.

In memory of Ellington McLaine Stringer - January 21, 2018

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I grew up singing Rich Mullins at the top of my lungs in a church with burnt orange carpet. “Our God is an awesome God, He reigns from heaven above, with wisdom, power, and love, our God is an awesome God.” It was one of those songs that made you feel like the ceiling might lift off the building. Like something holy was actually happening. I still love that song. But somewhere between that burnt orange carpet and adulthood, I started noticing that the God many evangelicals seemed to worship wasn’t quite the one Rich Mullins was singing about. This one was less interested in wisdom and love and more interested in geopolitical conflict, military dominance, and a very specific countdown clock to the apocalypse.

When the End Times Became a Foreign Policy

Dispensationalism didn’t start as a political movement. It started as a theological system developed in the 1830s by an Anglo-Irish preacher named John Nelson Darby, who divided all of human history into distinct “dispensations” or eras in which God relates to humanity differently. Darby’s innovation, which was genuinely novel in Christian history, was the idea of the Rapture, a secret catching away of believers before a seven-year period of global tribulation, culminating in the literal return of Christ to reign on earth for a thousand years. This framework made its way to American shores, got picked up by the Scofield Reference Bible in 1909, became embedded in fundamentalist and evangelical institutions throughout the 20th century, and then absolutely exploded in popular culture when Hal Lindsey published “The Late Great Planet Earth” in 1970. By the time the Left Behind series sold 65 million copies starting in the 1990s, dispensationalism became a worldview, a political posture, and for many, a reason to stop caring about the earth altogether.

The theological mechanics matter here because they have real consequences. If you believe the world is in an irreversible prophetic tailspin toward Armageddon, and that your job is simply to hold on until the rapture whisks you away, then working for justice, tending to creation, or pursuing peace starts to feel pointless. Worse, it can start to feel like you’re working against God’s plan. Some dispensationalist thinkers have explicitly argued that Christians should support military build-up in the Middle East because conflict there is a sign of the end times being fulfilled. The logic is circular and terrifying. War then becomes a prophecy to be accelerated.

The Bomb in the Sanctuary

This is where evangelical infatuation with militarism starts to make a certain kind of terrible sense. When your theology tells you that America is uniquely favored by God, that Israel must be protected at all costs because of its role in end-times prophecy, and that strength is the primary language God speaks in the world, you end up with a Christianity that looks less like the Sermon on the Mount and more like a defense contractor’s wish list. You get pastors blessing fighter jets. You get sanctuaries wrapped in flags. You get a theology where “Our God is an awesome God” quietly becomes “Our God is an awesome bomb.”

N.T. Wright (one of leading New Testament scholars) has spent decades arguing that the entire dispensationalist framework is a misreading of scripture, particularly the book of Revelation, which was written as first-century apocalyptic literature to encourage persecuted Christians under Roman imperial rule. Not as a coded roadmap for 21st-century geopolitics. The beasts and empires in Revelation are references to Rome and its collaborators, written in the symbolic language that Jewish apocalyptic literature had used for centuries. Reading it as a prediction of Russian military movements or a European Union antichrist is like reading a political cartoon and thinking the bear with a sash labeled “Russia” is a zoological report. It’s ridiculous actually.

The damage this does to actual Christian ethics is enormous. Jesus said blessed are the peacemakers. He said love your enemies. He said put away the sword. These ideas were the central ethic of the kingdom he was announcing. When a theology builds an escape hatch out of history, it quietly gives believers permission to stop being responsible for it.

What We Lose When We Can’t Wait to Leave

There’s a grief underneath all of this that I think gets overlooked. Many of the people who absorbed dispensationalism did so not because they wanted to baptize violence, but because the theology offered them something genuinely appealing. Certainty. A map. The sense that history is going somewhere and that God is in control of it even when everything feels like it’s coming apart. I have enormous compassion for that longing. The world is terrifying. Making sense of it with a schema that says “this chaos is actually the plan” can feel like relief.

But it produces a faith that is fundamentally passive in the face of suffering and structurally incapable of lamenting what should be lamented. If the bombs are supposed to fall, you don’t pray for the people underneath them. You check your prophecy chart.

The Christianity I’ve come to inhabit believes that God is redeeming this world, not evacuating it. That the resurrection of Jesus was not a divine escape trick but a declaration that matter matters, that bodies matter, that history matters, and that the arc of creation is bending toward renewal. Jesus did not come to help us escape the world. He came to redeem it.

Singing a Different Song

Rich Mullins died in 1997 in a car accident in Illinois. By most accounts he was a man of genuine holiness, deep poverty of spirit, and real love for people on the margins. His God actually did reign with wisdom, power, and love.

The invitation in all of this isn’t to stop believing in a God who is awesome. It’s to ask honestly what we mean by awesome. Is it a God whose greatness is measured in fire and force and the righteous destruction of enemies? Or is it the God revealed in a baby in a feeding trough, in a teacher washing feet, in a man hanging on a cross praying for the people killing him? Because only one of those gods has anything to do with the gospel. And only one of them is worth singing about.

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Nobody apologizes anymore. I don’t mean the Instagram story apology or the Notes app statement crafted by a publicist or the tearful press conference where someone reads from a script about how they’re going to “do the work” and then disappears for six weeks before launching a comeback tour. I mean actual apology. The kind where a person looks another person in the eye and says I was wrong and I’m sorry and I have no excuse. That kind of apology has become so rare in American public life that when it actually happens it makes the news. We literally do not know what to do when someone tells the truth about themselves without being forced into it.

I mean you know this. Watch what happens every time a politician or public figure gets caught in a lie or a scandal or a moral failure. The playbook is so predictable at this point. First comes the denial. Then comes the deflection. Then comes the counterattack where somehow the person who did the wrong thing becomes the victim and the people who pointed it out become the villains. Then come the surrogates flooding every cable news show and social media platform to rewrite the story in real time. And if enough time passes and enough noise gets generated the whole thing just fades into the background until the next cycle starts. At no point in this process does anyone ever simply say I was wrong.

We’ve built an entire culture around the avoidance of confession, and it’s killing us.

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The Email I Didn’t Want to Send

A few years into ministry I was living with a secret that was eating me alive. I had been addicted to pornography for years. Through college, and through the early days of pastoral ministry. It was the thing I carried with me into every sermon and every prayer and every leadership meeting. I knew it was there. God knew it was there. And I had become an expert at making sure nobody else ever found out.

I was good at hiding it. That’s what shame does. It teaches you to perform wholeness while you’re falling apart on the inside. And the evangelical world I grew up in made that performance easy because the unspoken rule was that leaders don’t struggle with things like this. Or if they do, they certainly don’t talk about it. You white-knuckle your way through it privately and you pray harder and you install accountability software and you never ever let anyone see the real mess because the moment you do your ministry is over.

One night I couldn’t carry it anymore. I was laying in bed and on my phone I typed out an email to our church leadership team. I don’t remember exactly what I wrote. I just remember that my hands were shaking and I felt like I was going to throw up and every instinct in my body was screaming at me to delete the draft and go to bed and keep pretending. I hit send instead.

The next day I sat in a room with those leaders and told them everything. And what happened next is the part I still can’t talk about without getting emotional. They didn’t shame me. They didn’t fire me. They didn’t quote scripture at me or give me a program to follow or tell me to get it together. They loved me. They prayed for me. They asked me what I needed. They helped me get treatment and enrolled into a recovery program. They walked with me into a season of healing that I never would have found if I had kept hiding.

That meeting is one of the most important things that has ever happened to me. And it only happened because I chose confession.

Why We Can’t Say It

There’s a reason vulnerability feels so dangerous right now. We’ve watched too many people get destroyed for admitting weakness. The internet has no grace. Social media has no statute of limitations. One honest moment can be screenshotted and decontextualized and weaponized and turned into the only thing anyone ever knows about you. So we learn to curate. We learn to manage. We learn to project strength and certainty and confidence at all times because the cost of honesty feels unsurvivable.

And the church has contributed to this. How many pastors have been removed not because they confessed but because they got caught? How many church cultures have made it clear through a thousand unspoken signals that vulnerability is acceptable in the congregation but never in the leadership? We say we believe in grace and then we build institutions that punish honesty. We preach a gospel of forgiveness on Sunday and run our organizations like the confession will be used against you in court on Monday.

Now I want to be careful here because I am not talking about abuse. I am not talking about pastors who exploit their power or harm the people in their care or cross lines that should never be crossed. When that happens there should be swift and serious consequences and the protection of victims should always come first. That’s not confession territory. That’s accountability territory and the church has been far too slow to recognize the difference.

What I am talking about is the ordinary brokenness that every human being carries. The struggles and failures and secret battles that don’t involve harming others but do involve the slow corrosion of carrying shame alone in the dark because you’ve been told that leaders aren’t allowed to be broken.

James 5:16 says “confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed.” Not so that you may be managed. Not so that you may be evaluated and placed on a performance improvement plan. So that you may be healed. There is something that happens in the human soul when you stop hiding and start telling the truth that cannot happen any other way. I know this because I’ve lived it.

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The Bravest Thing You’ll Ever Do

Henri Nouwen wrote that “the great illusion of leadership is to think that others can be led out of the desert by someone who has never been there.” I think about that line constantly because it obliterates the performance model of faith that so many of us were raised in. The leaders worth following are not the ones who have it all together. They’re the ones who have been honest about the fact that they don’t.

Confession is not weakness. It’s not career suicide. It’s not the end of your ministry or your marriage or your reputation. It might feel like all of those things in the moment you hit send or open your mouth or sit down in that room. I know because I’ve been in that chair. But confession is actually the doorway to the only kind of freedom that matters. The freedom of being fully known and fully loved at the same time.

Lent invites us into confession not as punishment but as liberation. The season asks us to tell the truth about ourselves. Not the curated truth. Not the version we post online. The real truth. The stuff we carry in the dark. And it asks us to trust that the God who already knows everything about us is not waiting to condemn us but to heal us.

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This week, tell someone the truth about something you’ve been carrying alone. It doesn’t have to be your deepest darkest secret. Start small if you need to. But find one safe person and say the thing you’ve been afraid to say. And I want to be really clear about that word safe. Not every person in your life has earned the right to hear your confession. Not every small group leader or pastor or friend is equipped to hold that kind of weight with the grace it requires. Use wisdom here. Use discernment. Confession is sacred and it deserves to be treated that way. Look for the person who has shown you over time that they can sit with hard things without flinching, without judging, without turning your honesty into gossip or a project to be managed. That person exists in your life. You probably already know who they are.

Confession was never meant to be a public spectacle. It was meant to be an act of courage between people who love each other enough to hold the truth gently. And when it happens in the right room with the right people it might just be the most healing thing you have experienced in a long time.

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Americans are the most consumed people in the history of the world. And I don’t mean that in some finger-wagging, shame-based kind of way. I mean it as an observation that should stop us in our tracks if we thought about it for more than three seconds. We are swimming in stuff. Our closets are full. Our pantries are full. Our streaming queues are full. Our inboxes are full. Our calendars are full. Our feeds are an infinite scroll of content we didn’t ask for and can’t stop consuming. We have more access to more everything than any group of humans who have ever lived on this planet and somehow the anxiety and depression numbers keep climbing.

There’s a reason for that. Consumption promises satisfaction and then immediately creates more hunger. That’s the engine. That’s how it works. You buy the thing, watch the thing, eat the thing, scroll the thing, and for about fifteen minutes you feel something. Then the emptiness comes back louder than before. So you reach for the next thing. And the next. The entire economy depends on you never feeling like you have enough. The whole machine breaks down if you ever sit still long enough to realize that you’re full and have been for a while.

And the church has not been immune. We’ve built a Christian consumption industry that would have baffled the desert fathers. Conferences, books, podcasts, apps, subscription boxes, merch. The faith has been packaged into content to be consumed and we’ve confused consuming Christian products with actual formation. You can listen to worship music twelve hours a day and never once sit in silence long enough to hear God say something you didn’t want to hear.

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Making Room

Every January for as long as I can remember I’ve also fasted the first two days of the year. No food. Just water and quiet and whatever God might want to say about the year ahead. I started doing this because I noticed something about myself that I didn’t love. By the end of every year I was so full of noise and opinions and plans and obligations that I couldn’t hear anything underneath all of it. The signal was completely buried under the static. And I found that the only way to recover it was to empty out. To stop taking things in for a little while and just sit in the hunger.

Those two days are never fun. I’m not going to romanticize it. By the afternoon of day one I’m irritable and distracted and thinking about tacos and chicken wings. But somewhere in the middle of day two something usually shifts. The noise dies down. The mental chatter thins out. And there’s this space that opens up that wasn’t available to me twenty-four hours earlier because I had filled every square inch of it with something.

That’s what fasting is actually about. It’s not punishment. It’s not a willpower test. It’s not a way to twist God’s arm. Fasting is the practice of making room. It’s the radical act of saying I have enough, I’ve taken in enough, and I need to stop for a minute so I can remember what matters.

The God of Empty Spaces

You don’t know what has a grip on you until you try to let go of it. Skip a meal and watch what happens to your mood. Leave your phone in another room for an afternoon and notice the low-grade panic that creeps in. Turn off the podcast on your commute and just drive in silence and see how long it takes before the quiet becomes unbearable. We are a people who have lost the ability to be empty.

And the problem with that is not just physical or psychological. It’s spiritual. Because the entire biblical story is built on the idea that God fills what is empty. Mary’s empty womb. The empty tomb. The disciples’ empty nets. God has always done his most profound work in the places where there’s nothing left but need. And if we never let ourselves get empty then we are essentially telling God there’s no room at the inn. Again.

Ronald Rolheiser writes that “we need to be overwhelmed, to be in over our heads, to be in a situation where our own resources are inadequate” because that’s where faith actually begins. I think he’s right. And I think that’s why fasting has survived for thousands of years as a spiritual practice. Because we need to remember what it feels like to need something we can’t provide for ourselves.

Lent invites us to fast. Not as a diet plan. Not as a performative spiritual flex. But as an honest admission that we’ve been consuming our way through life and it’s not working. The hunger is not the enemy. The hunger is the invitation. It’s the space where God’s voice has room to land.

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This week, pick one thing to fast from. Pick one thing that has a grip on you and set it down for seven days. Maybe it’s the scroll before bed. Maybe it’s the noise in the car. Maybe it’s the constant snacking that fills every gap in your afternoon. Whatever it is, let yourself feel the emptiness that shows up when it’s gone. Don’t fill it with something else. Just sit in it. You might be surprised what you hear when you finally stop consuming long enough to listen.

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We are living in the golden age of self-improvement. And I don’t just mean the gym memberships and the meal prep containers, although those are part of it. I mean the entire ecosystem that has been built around the idea that you are a project. You are something to be optimized. There is a better version of you out there and if you just read the right book, follow the right routine, wake up early enough, journal with enough intention, meditate for the right number of minutes, and align your habits with your goals then you will finally arrive at the version of yourself that is worthy of love and admiration and success.

Do me a favor. Open your phone right now and count the apps designed to make you a better you. Fitness trackers. Habit builders. Sleep optimizers. Mood journals. Productivity systems. We have turned the human experience into a never-ending renovation project and we are both the contractor and the house. The message is everywhere and it is …

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I’ve been teaching a three-week class on biblical reliability, and we hit the third week last night. The first two weeks covered manuscript evidence and archaeology. Folks asked good questions. I shared what I learned here on Substack, and you seemed to appreciate it.

But week three was different. Week three is where things get spicy. Because week three is where we talk about how the Bible was actually put together. How did we end up with these 27 books in the New Testament and not others? Who decided? When did they decide? And was it actually decided at all, or did someone just announce one day that this was the Bible now and everyone had to deal with it?

The moment I put up the slide about canon formation, I could see the wheels turning. What about The Da Vinci Code? Was it Constantine? Did a bunch of bishops vote on which books to include?

Here’s the thing about how the Bible was assembled. Almost everything you’ve heard about it is probably wrong, and it’s not because you’re gullible…

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I’m teaching a three-week class on biblical reliability right now, and a question that keeps coming up is this: “If I don’t believe everything in the Bible happened exactly as written, does that mean I don’t take it seriously?”

It is such a great question, and the honest answer? I believe there is some great archaeological evidence that actually gives us permission to take the Bible more seriously than ever before. Because when you understand what kind of texts you’re reading and the historical world they emerged from, you can engage Scripture with both intellectual honesty and deep respect.

For week 2 of this series, here’s what I’ve been sharing with the class about how archaeology helps us distinguish between historical grounding and strict literalism.

Real People in Real Places (With Real Literary Freedom)

In 1993, archaeologists discovered a broken stone monument at Tel Dan in northern Israel with six words carved in ancient Aramaic: “House of D…

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Before we dive in: I typically write these longer essays a few weeks ahead of publication, which means I can't always respond to breaking news in this format. For real-time thoughts on current events, you can find me on Threads.

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I used to think mainline churches were where faith went to die.

When people left evangelical churches for mainline congregations, we whispered that they’d “gone liberal” like it was a diagnosis of some terminal illness. Then, I found myself on staff at the largest mainline church in North America, and I discovered that almost everything I’d been told was either wildly exaggerated or completely backwards.

The Narrative I Inherited

The story I grew up with was that evangelical churches were Bible-believing, Spirit-filled, growing communities of genuine believers. Mainline churches were theological museums, preserving the forms of Christianity while abandoning its power. They’d compromised with the world, prioritized inclusion over truth, and were slowly dying as God’s judgment on their unfaithfulness. They were to be avoided at all costs.

When I finally stepped into a United Methodist church, I was shocked to discover a community that loved scriptur…

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